Often when subs enter this scene, they are like a kids in a candy store. They get so turned on by sending, and before they know it, they have sent WAY more than they ever intended. Their usual response is to delete their profile and run completely away from the scene (temporarily). Before long the urge the send returns, and they repeat this vicious cycle.
I get it. I’ve been there. This scene can be addictive. I’ve learned I can’t run from it. I will always have the urge to send. So the MOST I can do is figure out how to control my spending. Here’s my best advice for how to do just that: